Self Mastery

Course Overview
Begin with the Foundation Journey or explore any topic that matches your current goals. Assessments can help you identify opportunities for growth, while lessons, strategies, routines, challenges, and coaching help you practice what works for you.

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Work through each module and lesson at your own pace.

Module 6Mastering Appetites, Urges & Addictive Behaviors10 lessons planned

Learn to experience an urge without automatically obeying it.

Develop practical skills for understanding and managing cravings, impulses, compulsions, appetites, addictive behaviors, and other patterns that can take control of your choices.

  • Understand triggers, urges, cravings, and reinforcement patterns.
  • Practice urge surfing, delay, replacement, and response strategies.
  • Identify environmental and emotional triggers.
  • Build healthier alternative behaviors and support systems.
  • Learn from setbacks and continue progressing without all-or-nothing thinking.
Understanding Appetites, Urges & Cravings
LESSON

Understand how appetites, cravings, impulses, and urges arise and why experiencing an urge does not require acting on it.

  • Appetites
  • Urges
  • Cravings
  • Impulse
  • Choice

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Triggers and the Cycle of Compulsion
LESSON

Map the sequence from trigger to thought, feeling, urge, behavior, reward, consequence, and renewed vulnerability.

  • Trigger
  • Urge
  • Behavior
  • Reward
  • Compulsive cycle

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Surfing the Urge
LESSON

Practice observing an urge as a changing experience that rises, shifts, and passes without automatically acting on it.

  • Urge surfing
  • Observation
  • Body sensations
  • Acceptance
  • Waiting

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Delay, Distract, Substitute & Choose
LESSON

Build a practical menu of immediate options that create time and distance between an urge and an unwanted behavior.

  • Delay
  • Distraction
  • Substitution
  • Choice
  • Emergency strategies

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Changing the Internal Experience of a Craving
LESSON

Explore how imagery, self-talk, attention, sensory qualities, and meaning may influence the subjective intensity of cravings.

  • Internal representation
  • Imagery
  • Self-talk
  • Attention
  • Sensory qualities

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Designing Your Environment for Recovery
LESSON

Reduce exposure to triggers, increase friction around unwanted behaviors, and make healthier alternatives easier to access.

  • Trigger reduction
  • Friction
  • Access
  • Environmental cues
  • Healthy alternatives

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Replacing What the Behavior Was Providing
LESSON

Identify the need, relief, stimulation, connection, escape, comfort, or reward the behavior provides and develop healthier ways to meet it.

  • Underlying need
  • Emotional payoff
  • Replacement
  • Healthy reward
  • Meaningful alternatives

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Support, Accountability & Coaching
LESSON

Build appropriate support through trusted people, coaching, recovery communities, healthcare, counseling, or other resources when useful.

  • Support
  • Accountability
  • Coaching
  • Professional care
  • Recovery communities

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Learning from Relapse or Setbacks
LESSON

Respond to setbacks with honesty, learning, renewed support, and practical adjustment instead of shame or abandonment of the goal.

  • Relapse learning
  • Triggers
  • Plan adjustment
  • Support
  • Return to progress

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Building Your Personal Recovery Strategy
LESSON

Create a flexible plan that brings together triggers, coping skills, replacement behaviors, environmental changes, support, and ongoing learning.

  • Trigger plan
  • Urge strategies
  • Replacement behaviors
  • Support
  • Continuous refinement

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Module 10Purpose, Character & Lifelong Self Mastery10 lessons planned

Bring everything together into a life you intentionally choose.

Connect Self Mastery with your values, character, purpose, relationships, contribution, and long-term vision while continually refining your Personal Self Mastery System.

  • Clarify values, principles, purpose, and personal direction.
  • Align daily behavior with the person you want to become.
  • Strengthen character through repeated intentional choices.
  • Review progress and adapt strategies as life changes.
  • Create and continually refine a lifelong Personal Self Mastery System.
What Kind of Person Do You Want to Become?
LESSON

Define the qualities, principles, relationships, contributions, and ways of living you want your choices to reflect.

  • Desired character
  • Identity
  • Relationships
  • Contribution
  • Vision

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Clarifying Your Values
LESSON

Identify the principles and priorities you want to guide decisions when competing demands pull you in different directions.

  • Values
  • Priorities
  • Tradeoffs
  • Decision guidance
  • Alignment

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Purpose & Meaning
LESSON

Explore the people, causes, responsibilities, beliefs, experiences, and contributions that give your life meaning and direction.

  • Purpose
  • Meaning
  • Direction
  • Service
  • Contribution

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Character Is Built Through Choices
LESSON

Understand character as something strengthened through repeated choices, especially when doing what matters is difficult.

  • Character
  • Repeated choices
  • Consistency
  • Courage
  • Growth

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Living with Integrity
LESSON

Align what you believe, say, choose, and do so your life increasingly reflects your values.

  • Integrity
  • Alignment
  • Authenticity
  • Honesty
  • Consistency

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Stewarding Your Time & Energy
LESSON

Treat time, attention, energy, health, relationships, and opportunities as limited resources to be used intentionally.

  • Time
  • Energy
  • Attention
  • Stewardship
  • Renewal

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Choosing Priorities
LESSON

Make intentional tradeoffs among many good possibilities so what matters most receives appropriate attention.

  • Priorities
  • Tradeoffs
  • Decision-making
  • Boundaries
  • Focus

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Contribution, Relationships & Legacy
LESSON

Connect self-mastery with how you love, serve, influence, mentor, create, contribute, and leave people and places better.

  • Relationships
  • Service
  • Contribution
  • Influence
  • Legacy

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Reviewing Your Growth
LESSON

Regularly examine what is working, what has changed, what you have learned, and where your next opportunity for growth may be.

  • Reflection
  • Progress
  • Learning
  • Assessment
  • Next focus

Planned lesson · Coming soon

Your Personal Self Mastery System
LESSON

Bring together the principles, strategies, routines, relationships, resources, and practices that help you live intentionally and continue refining them throughout life.

  • Personal Self Mastery System
  • Best strategies
  • Best routines
  • Support network
  • Lifelong refinement

Planned lesson · Coming soon

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